Do not use Blame Talk or Blame Thinking

Blame talk and blame thinking, even when true, just seems to make matters worse.  Blaming is like a cancer, it eats you up and when you take a deeper look at problem solving, you will find that just blaming really does not help you resolve the problem long-term.  SO, search for the "Hidden"  WHYS? first and then come up with a sound answer that helps resolve the "whole" situation and/or helps the other person according to their needs, not yours.

Try this principle: (do it) and see what happens. It won't hurt you and may even fix things for the "whole" gang.  Hint, this approach has something to do with GOOD STEWARDSHIP.