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WHICH WAY DO YOU TYPICAL RESPOND TO
CONFLICT?
Most people say, Phase I (the Attack Phase) which usually
leads them to more trouble. This is the world's golden rule that simply
says. "I'll give you just what you gave me." Then the "PEOPLE WARS" start.
Or people duck and hide in the Phase III (the Escape Phase).
The conflict just brews for awhile to later rise up and bite you again , but now
it's bigger.
AH HA! No wonder there is so much conflict in the world!
Try the balanced pro-active phase II approach
to prevent and resolve conflict, which really is the Golden Rule.
Matthew 7:12 "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to
you ...." NIV.
Treat others better - just like you would
want them to treat you.
Interesting enough .... BUT WOW!
These are the SAME 3 Phases that are used when
evaluating and monitoring the health of a pasture plant communities.
Phase III = "Land
Idle-itis"
(No disturbances occurring = Over-rested land long-term)
Phase II = Land reaching
full Potential
(Balanced use and rest = Healthy Land)
Phase I = Stressed from too
many disturbances
(Too many disturbances = Over-grazed Land)
Why the similarities in the 3 Phases between
the way people respond to conflict and the 3 ways to determine land health?
Answer: These are Nature's Principles &
Nature's Laws.
Would you like to know more about how we respond
to conflict
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Ever really add up the Costs of Conflict? It will
scare you!
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